why???

[Jen]

why are men/lads so confusing? if a relationship isnt working for both people then surely it is best to call it a day and say you have tried but it didnt work? but no, it would seem not in the good old world of bishop butlins.

[spotti]

What's happened jenjen? You ok? PM me if you want

[Jen]

it wasnt working between me and my (now ex) boyfriend, it just felt like we were friends with benefits ( ) so i let him down gently on friday night and he looked like a little puppy that had just been told off which made me upset and feel really guilty and made me question whether or not i was doing the right thing and he has been going round college slagging me off to his mates saying i was using him and it doesnt take over a month to know if you liked someone or not - it also takes more than a couple of weeks to know of you love someone if you ask me. i am actually really annoyed by it

[fimacg]

sounds like he is somewhat immature, what you have done is very sensible and and adult way of looking at things. Don't worry they do grow up eventually!

[spotti]

Guys mature much later than girls - he'll grown up eventually hun. Like Fi says, it sounds like you've handled things very sensibly so I wouldn't let his silly antics bother you too much

[Becca]

at least you had one to let down at all

haha seriously though it's true, men are less mature (and big stinky poo heads )