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Post by Jen on Oct 21, 2008 16:52:20 GMT
started off ok, had an ok riding lesson apart from being yelled at for trotting too slow and not having boots on shadow (if we trotted any faster then i would have been on the floor when charles objected to shadows nose up his @r$e and we didnt know that we needed boots on the horses due to not knowing that trotting poles is classed as jumping(?) as t is usually a flatwork lesson)
anyway later on me and lucy were scraping poo of the horse walker when L and K came to "help" us. was all ok until L tried to push me over by moving the 'walls' (bits that stop the horses from just stopping so the others crash into them, sorry dont nknow what they are called or how to describe them) i told her to stop as i was still scooping up poopy and she didnt so i just turned round and had a go at her telling her that she almost knocked me over at which point she laughed, so i just let rip at her, she really hurt myshoulder as i had to use it to push back and not fall over. anyway she said something under her voice to K and they both went off K a little reluctantly. i was still ranting at lucy (poor lucy) at this point, stopped to take breath at which point lucy says that she will probably be slagging me off again. i asked her what did she mean and it turns out that all L does is slag me off saying that all i do is talk about blossom (shes never had her own horse so doesnt actually understand what its like to have one and the experiencdes that come with one, and im not the only person that talks about their horses) and the other thing that i never shut up about apparently is working at macdonalds. she said all this to lucy - my best friend at college!!!
anyway when they had gone they snuck back and actually turned the horse walker on and then stopped it so that it banged into my back - and she says that im immature.
when we were back in the locker room i was sorting my locker out so that all my stuff would fin=t in properly when something fell from lucys locker which is above mine and lnded on my hand - it was lucys padlock and the corner of it sliced a cut about 4mm long but right down to the bone, that happened about 45mins ago and it still really really really hurts - it has stopped bleeding though and i think that i might actually get a bruise tomorrow (my skin doesnt bruise easily) as its really swollen as well.
i was fine when this happened and when the L thing happened but when D and K came into the locker room when just me was left in there (lucy had gone to get her bus) D said what was wrong and that just set off the tears and they havent stopped yet.
i just want a blossom hug.
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Post by aimee on Oct 21, 2008 17:03:45 GMT
awww poor you. That really is a foul smelling poopy day if I ever did see one. Hope your hand is ok
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Post by Blonde Donkey on Oct 21, 2008 18:18:03 GMT
aww massive hugs darling sorry my padlock hit you it seems to have a mind of it's own these days
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Post by Jen on Oct 21, 2008 18:19:09 GMT
it still really hurts now
and its really swollen
and i actually have a bruise
i never bruise
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Post by Blonde Donkey on Oct 21, 2008 18:22:03 GMT
ouch all that damage from a padlock really really sorry
did D & K sort you out hun
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Post by Jen on Oct 21, 2008 18:35:25 GMT
yeah, apparently she was slagging D off pretty much in front of him after he helped her get the horse out on a circle when she was lunging, she was saying that all he does is interfere - no he was helping coz you couldnt do it!
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Post by Blonde Donkey on Oct 21, 2008 18:36:45 GMT
who said that?! D always helping me and everyone else
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Post by Steph on Oct 21, 2008 18:36:59 GMT
aw hun that really is a bit of a rubbish day! Hope tomorrow's better x
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Post by maximum on Oct 21, 2008 18:39:07 GMT
hunny this is SUCH a hard time for you.
It is 26 years since I left home at 16 and I can remember going home on the bus after the first few weeks and just crying and then eating hot buttered toast made by my mum and cuddling her and falling asleep on the sofa. - its soooo hard but you will get through it.
the L thing is bloody bullying so make your stand, tell her you do not appriciate her attitude and the fact that she is talking about you behind your back. Explain how much you miss Bloss and maybe show her soe pics and invite her to come and see B? she maybe jealous and if you offer the hand of friendship she may take it. otherwise slap the bitch!
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Post by Jen on Oct 21, 2008 18:39:24 GMT
i hope so too. not going near lkucy and padlocks for a while. the girl in the meadows food bar asked if my shoulder was better and i said yeah it was my hand that had gone wonky. she seems to think that i am accident prone for some reason! dont know what gives her that idea, neither does my dad when i told him after i asked him about sheeps willies!!!
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Post by Blonde Donkey on Oct 21, 2008 18:42:24 GMT
it's being a maccydees worker it shrinks your brain so that ypu have accidents
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Post by Blonde Donkey on Oct 21, 2008 18:43:48 GMT
hunny this is SUCH a hard time for you. It is 26 years since I left home at 16 and I can remember going home on the bus after the first few weeks and just crying and then eating hot buttered toast made by my mum and cuddling her and falling asleep on the sofa. - its soooo hard but you will get through it. the L thing is bloody bullying so make your stand, tell her you do not appriciate her attitude and the fact that she is talking about you behind your back. Explain how much you miss Bloss and maybe show her soe pics and invite her to come and see B? she maybe jealous and if you offer the hand of friendship she may take it. otherwise slap the bitch! ^^^^^^^ wise words maxi i think we'll do the slap her option after what she has said to me about jen.
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Post by Jen on Oct 21, 2008 18:48:01 GMT
hunny this is SUCH a hard time for you. It is 26 years since I left home at 16 and I can remember going home on the bus after the first few weeks and just crying and then eating hot buttered toast made by my mum and cuddling her and falling asleep on the sofa. - its soooo hard but you will get through it. the L thing is bloody bullying so make your stand, tell her you do not appriciate her attitude and the fact that she is talking about you behind your back. Explain how much you miss Bloss and maybe show her soe pics and invite her to come and see B? she maybe jealous and if you offer the hand of friendship she may take it. otherwise slap the bitch! aww maxie thank you, you made me cry again coz i just miss blossie so much and you saying it just made it hit home harder, i just really want my pony. i was so ready to slap her earlier and told lucy that if she was in the locker room then to physically restrain me or it wouldnt have been pretty.
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Post by Steph on Oct 21, 2008 18:54:12 GMT
I miss being away from my girl too! It's a hard time for you but It'll be worth it in the long run (I sound quite old don't I?!!)
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Post by madcatwoman on Oct 21, 2008 19:22:09 GMT
i rember when i first left home at 16 , i really missed my babies , and i would jabber on about them all the time , have sme virtual hugs (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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Post by Jen on Oct 21, 2008 20:13:13 GMT
aww thanks guys. im feeling better after two good crying sesions!
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Post by kitcat on Oct 22, 2008 7:15:03 GMT
Hey Jen, How's your hand today? I hope today is a better one for you.
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Post by Jen on Oct 22, 2008 7:18:29 GMT
well the bruising hasnt come out as much as i hoped, if anything there is less than here there was last night, which therefore means it will hurt more.
i darent get out of bed in case i have another bad day!!!!
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Post by kitcat on Oct 22, 2008 7:46:50 GMT
It's worse if you stay in bed coz then you just feel sorry for yourself, making everything seem worse and then you start imagining all sorts of other things that could go wrong. Here's a karma to start the day;)
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Post by cazza on Oct 22, 2008 11:23:23 GMT
kisses better for your hand and head, dont let bullys get to you like maxi said tell her straight and if that dont work find the nearest shovell (presume theres lots at hand) and knock her out. i carnt stand bullys, mainly target people there jelous of but once you stand up to them they usually back off
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Post by spotti on Oct 23, 2008 9:54:34 GMT
Aww Jen hun *hugs* - bullies are lonely and sad people and like cazza said, they're probably just jealous of the gorgeous Blossom and that she's yours and that they haven't got one to cuddle and love and talk about non-stop (which I think is the curse of every horseowner, but we don't care because we love our neddies so much that we just want to share our happiness with anyone who'll listen!!! I do anyway...) I've always found the worst b*tches I've ever met were horsey b*tches! There's no one more b*tchy than a horsey teenage girl! When is the next time you're going home to see Bloss? This weekend? Count down the days until you can see her again...always makes my life go quicker when I'm looking forward to seeing my hairy munchkin. As for the bullies - I'd tell someone about them and then stand up for yourself (by telling someone first you've covered your back incase they go squealing and making up stuff about you). Tell them its not nice to talk about people behind their backs and that you're sorry they've not got a pony of their own to love and cuddle and talk about all the time, and that you're sorry that you've got a job you (sort of) enjoy and that you're sorry they're lonely, unhappy people with nothing else in their lives and that they have to make themselves feel good by putting other people down. Well that's just the way life is so get over it! Grrr...I really hate bullies. The only good thing I can say is that generally people grow out of the immature-ness and soon reaise that actually, life is a lot more fun if everyone gets along. Ok so their is a bully in almost every situation (cheery notion there), but the more times you have to deal with it, the better you get at it and the less it affects you. If you need to talk to someone then talk to us or if you want a more personal chat then feel free to PM me and we can talk away to your hearts content (I've had a lot of experience with bullies over the years so feel free to chat away). Big hugs to you munchkin >>>>>>>>>HUGS<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
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