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Post by scattymare on May 7, 2008 11:58:47 GMT
Soory I need to have a rant!! OK about 3 months ago I made the tough decision to break off a friendship with someone I'd been mates with for about 5 years. Won't go into too much detail otherwise I'd be here all day but it wasn't a decision I took lightly but I knew it was the right thing to do. Anyway, needless to say she didn't take it too well. One minute I'd get a text saying hated me, the next one saying she missed me. Eventually it all calmed down until this morning I suddenly get a randon text from her telling me to stay out of her life and she couldn't care if I was alive or dead!! Pleasant. She is married to my best friends brother and blames me for causing a rift between my friend and brother (its actually cause *friend* cannot stand this girl and is not allowed to see her brother unless she is there.
Sorry this doesn't make too much sense but I'm just so wound up. It was so unneccessary. I am just ignoring it as to reply fuels her further.
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Post by spotti on May 7, 2008 12:18:32 GMT
Agreed. People are silly. Ignore them and they'll either a) get bored and go away, or b) carry on for a while, get bored then go away
If its not worth fighting for the don't bother wasting your time.
Oh, and deep breaths (along with kicking and throwing things) helps with stress...actually, go on Haffy's post about stress relief and have a play on those bubbles...
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Post by Becca on May 7, 2008 12:48:57 GMT
stress relief post? oo needing that haha
scatty you are doing the best thing by ignoring this person, they are obviously just wanting an argument to contact you so randomly.
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Post by spotti on May 7, 2008 12:51:32 GMT
Yeah, the stress relief post (can't remember where it is...its around somewhere!) has a link to virual bubblewrap that you can pop...its great fun!
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Post by martine on May 7, 2008 13:46:45 GMT
Pity we can't put someone's face on the bubbles...
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Post by scattymare on May 13, 2008 11:29:34 GMT
;D ;D
Thanks for that martine. Gives me great thoughts just thinking about it!
Well she got her drama in the end. Apparently she ended up 'leaving' her husband cos everyone hates her (she doesn't actually stop to think Why. Needless to say they were back together after she'd had her little scene. Just winds me up so much. Thing is I can never get away from her completely cos my brother is also fiends with her husband!
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Post by Blonde Donkey on May 13, 2008 15:18:54 GMT
my mate has a "friend" like this one minute she's slagging her off the next their best mates. one day she had a go at me so i turned round and told her to f**k off. people like this are better off out of your life
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