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Post by Jen on Oct 15, 2008 19:29:52 GMT
i have put on 4kg which means im more than 8stone now which really gets me down for some reason (probs because i thought i had lost weight - not put it on). im eating reasonably healthy - im not working at the mo so no maccydees crap. and my belly is trying its best to make me look pregnant. i am not preggers. you had me complaining about period pain alongside headache and poorly shoulder last week, i am on the pill (to regulate things  ) and my girlfriend dont have the equipment!!! so i am very sure i am not pregnant. just feeling really down at the mo. im missing my fat pony lots and lots and i just want a proper hug.  |
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Post by Blonde Donkey on Oct 15, 2008 19:31:56 GMT
if you can wait i wil give you a proper hug tomorrow
and don't ever get pregnant hannah is a walking advert for contraception the pain she was in today is enough to put me off kids for life
*hugs*
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Post by finefilly on Oct 15, 2008 19:40:41 GMT
from the piccies i have seen of you, you dont look fat! i have lost so much weight since i have been ill the last few years and believe me, having a bit of weight is good, i look and feel horrendous for being skinny. i think all those supermodels look like walking skeletens and people are meant to look up to them!?? you look lovely so put yourself down xx
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Post by Jen on Oct 15, 2008 20:14:59 GMT
i have always been just under 8stone and a comfortable size 6-8, boob and hip room dependant. it feels really strange knowing that i am heavier than that now and it doesnt help that i look 6 months preggers. i ahve been funny about my weight since about two years ago when my cousin called me fat as i had a third helping of jelly and ice cream at a family party, she also said that i needed to diet so i did, i refused to eat anything and then i would binge and then eat nothing and then binge and so on. if anyone said anything then i would fly into a rage, almost out of control until my friends sat me down and forced me to eat, someone with at all times during school kinda thing. my cousins comments are still in my head whenever i get down about myself and i start to think "is she right?" all over again.
oooh i hate being me.
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Post by Blonde Donkey on Oct 15, 2008 20:22:39 GMT
think yourself lucky that you are near 8 stone if i ever get that low i will be happy though i have lost weight since being at work because i can't even bring myself to have fish fingers and gravy cos they serve fish fingers at work and i can't even look at a burger now without being all bleurgh Jen you're not fat mate so don't worry and if anyone calls you fat then send them to me  |
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Post by finefilly on Oct 15, 2008 21:53:59 GMT
i used to weigh 7 1/2 stone but now i am down to 6 1/2 stone and i hate it! i do eat but cant seem to put it on anymore. i have two operations in the past 3 years (one to remove my gall bladder) and the other plastic surgery. then i got ME and now they have diagnosed fibromyalgia. all of that has taken a toll and i feel and look like sh*t! i really wish i can put a bit more weight on. doctor says there is nothing to worry about as i am eating and told me things will get better. your cousin must be totally mad to say something like that! poeople always comment on my weight about how skinny i am and it really gets on my nerves, feel like saying something to them but its not in my nature to be cruel about someone. dont let them get to you and as sav says, we will be round to beat them up!xx
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Post by scattymare on Oct 16, 2008 11:19:13 GMT
I know what it's like when someone says that - my dad told me 'he thought I needed to lose weight'. OK so I did/do but you don't need your dad to tell you that. I was on the verge of tears all day. Sinse then I've been really paranoid in front of him about my weight. Worst thing is, now that I've lost some, he's not even noticed! Jen, you are not overweight. Anyone says so, we'll send the buys round!!
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Post by finefilly on Oct 16, 2008 11:43:41 GMT
my mums friends daughter was told she was getting chubby. she is now anorexic as she got so paranoid about what she ate. she was surviving on just a bowl of cereal and fruit. why dont people stop, think and realise that it is not nice saying these things. they wouldnt like it if we said it to them so why say it to other people!  |
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jane
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Post by jane on Oct 16, 2008 12:09:48 GMT
8 stone is very light, you will most certainly not be fat at that weight.
People are stupid and don't think when they make comments like your cousin, forget about your weight, you sound like a lovely thoughtful and kind person, that is what matters.... enjoy your life.
Also so what if someone is overweight?... anyone with half a brain looks at the person within. I am partially sighted and believe me when I tell you looks are so superficial. You carry on being you, that is what is important.
Hugs
jane
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Post by aimee on Oct 16, 2008 15:42:49 GMT
8 stone is most certainly not fat! As long as you are happy and healthy it dont matter hhat weight you are. Dont worry too much snotty, its probs just water retention or something. Hope you feel better soon |
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Post by Steph on Oct 16, 2008 17:05:59 GMT
Aimee's right it probs is water retention so will go away soon. And you're far from fat!
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Post by lizziebrandy on Oct 16, 2008 17:14:06 GMT
Aww Jen you are definatly NOT fat, you looked fine when I saw you the other day on the bus , Just being nosy which cousin? |
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Post by Jen on Oct 16, 2008 17:27:28 GMT
lets put it this way lizzie, you know em! dont say owt to her though.
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Post by lizziebrandy on Oct 16, 2008 17:39:35 GMT
don't worry my lips are tightly sealed, is you feeling happier today? btw sometimes I look a little preggers, but it all disapears |
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Post by abi on Oct 16, 2008 18:25:51 GMT
eight stone?! my rabbit probably nealry weighs that!
i put my 9stone 10 down to big bones! and thats why i love cobs!! x
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Post by Becca on Oct 16, 2008 18:35:11 GMT
i have a permanant little pot belly but that is well paid for wine and chocolate oh and every month around the same time  |
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Post by Jen on Oct 16, 2008 18:39:02 GMT
but i had my period last week and it always goes the day after i start. it doesnt come 2days afetr i finish and refuse to go? i hate it, makes me feel really fat even the sit ups i did last night didnt help - all 200 of them. |
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Post by Becca on Oct 16, 2008 20:21:03 GMT
stop whining missy and go have an apple sour for me and remember think of the good things not the bloating (that will go away) |
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Post by fleabitten on Oct 16, 2008 21:01:13 GMT
abi - im the same weight as you. Im happy as long as im under 10 stone! I just eat whatever the hell I want (you know the way theyre always on about healthy eating - who cares? eat what you want but just dont eat like 2 plates every mealtime and stuff like that!) and try not to think. I try to restrain myself lol!
Sometimes I feel fat and i get depressed about it. I dont really exercise apart from my lesson once a week, P.E once a week (well that doesnt really count, wouldnt class that as much exertion!) and walking about at school and to and from the bus.
Hope youre feeling a bit better - people can be really mean sometimes, words can really hurt!
Just remembered, I was like 10 stone 5 or 6 once and the next time i weighed myself i was like 9 stone 13 and i was like wooo! i didnt even have to do anything to make it like that!
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) and my girlfriend dont have the equipment!!! so i am very sure i am not pregnant.
Always saddle your own horse
