i hate where i live

[jack]

i had to do a three point turn in the road so i could leave the street as the kids were blocking the road when i come home i got a load of abuse from 2 parents 1 saying i had aimed at there child (said child was on the path away from road ) and that she had called the police the other parent who lives oposite me who wasnt even there at the time spate in my face and pushed me all i wanted to do was walk away and get my kids away from it all as i didnt want things to get worse when i did get in there kids were climbing on my veical and the adults leaning over it
i seem to be the only one down here who just wants to keep them self to them selves and not get invovled and that just makes everyone go against me and start trouble against me then if it goes futher no one belives me because they all sticks up for eack other ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
how the hell do i get out of here

[zara]

That sounds terrible Jack, i can't imagine how it must feel to live like that. I hope things improve quickly for you and you find some solutions Zx

[aimee]

I agree that is terrible. Dont blame you for trying to keep your head down its like that around here. And I would report her for doing that to you, its assault and you shouldn't have to put up with it. Hope your ok xx

[fimacg]

pack your bags and go away for a couple of days to get some respite and clear your head.

then look at your options, I don't know if you own your house or rent or in council house, but there must be an alternative.

[brigadier]

Neighbours- foul smelling poopy!

[florence]

Aww, Jack, this isn't the first time, is it? I know you've been trying to get out of there for ages. It must be so dreadful having to live like that. Is there no one you can go to for advice? Community police or something?

[jack]

none of them want to get invovled and theres no one to turn to and i cant just pack my bags

[haffyfan]

Jack it sounds terrible like Brig says neighbours = foul smelling poopys

Like Florence says is there somewhere you can go for advice at all?

[jack]

no where i can go im all a lone

[slinky]

Not an acceptable way of life!
I'm sorry I have no advice to give you, I'm just wishing things get easier for you soon.
That, and cuddle a neddy.

[babymare]

jack I really understand how you feel as my elderly mother suffers from the yobs around her. Its a housing estate mostly of elderly but 3 famillies from hell. Idrove up one day and a group of about 12 yobs were kicking my mothers garage door in. Well I saw red , swung tha car into the middle of them jumped out and basically said " right you want to terrorise a 72 year woman come and f**king(excuse my language) take me on " and went shoulder to shoulder with the eldest. One of them happened to be a girl who had bullied my daughter and 3 friends in junior school and when the school done nothing I waited for her one morning pushed up against a fence and basically said " if you are feel you are big enough to bully then you are big enough to take me on and please tell your parents I have threatened tyou " So this said girl knew I meant it and the gang disperesed but my mother had to pay for CCtTV - the poilce are useless and cause my mother owns her own house the council dont want to know - I so hate bullies

[florence]

Something's got to be done about this. My friends elderly dad went to visit her and he couldn't drive away from her house because as soon as he got in his car a load of kids came and sat on it, jeering and swearing at him. She had to come out and chase them off. Turns out the ringleader is staying with his aunt because he's got an ASBO where he lives!

[finefilly]

thats awful! its like that round here! the kids round here are hardly at school and cause havoc but the parents are just as bad as they are. all d*ckheads. they are all very clicky and stick together (until they have been drinking and fight amongst each other). i would love to move somewhere where i dont have neighbours! cant stand it!

[jack]

finefilly you just said it all, thats just how it is

[Becca]

And they wonder why so many kids are out of control when parents act that way!

Who is it what is connected to the police on here is it maxi?

Jack I would contact the police being physically pushed and spat at it not on! Also keep a diary of every little thing that happens. Even if the police dont do anything this time you will have logged the complaint so when you lose it with them and turn all kung fu on their bottoms you can say well i did ask for you help.

Seriously though there must be a way you can get out of there!

[jack]

im going back to the doctors next week to see if there another card we can deal the houseing to get me a higher banding i have done diary sheets for the last 8 1/2 years they have done nothing the adults incorage the kids behavour because they know they can get away with it my next door neibour is the worst she is a dopy single parent of 3 differnt block every week which kids all ways call them daddy the youngest is 5 then 6 then 12 the youngist has set fire to the house 15 times the last time was 2 months ago but this time he did a proper job the house is unlivable a hour after he did it his mother bought him a toy , sweets ,and a ice cream the next day he got a new bike , and my kids cannt understand why they get punish when they are naughty

[slinky]

Unfair!
I hope things turn more psitive soon.
Please feel free to drop in on Slinks, for a bit of respite and coffee ;D

[fimacg]

Jack remember you are never 'all alone' you have us mad bunch

[jack]

you lot and my jack sam and george are all that is keeping me going