saza60
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Post by saza60 on May 2, 2008 8:02:45 GMT
Rite.so ill start at the beginging. I spoke to HIM(oh) yesterday at wrk and i told him that ill try and get done quickly at the yard and spend some time with him. Didnt happen as it nevber does down there lol.
well when i was done i txt him, about 630ish, and asked him to phone me a taxi home. He rang me bk and said he wasnt going to because he didnt wanna. so i told him to f*** off and get a life. phoned a taxi off a friends phone and got hm. When at home i got a txt saying how long will u be. Didnt reply. he rang me and said well how long will u be? I said im in bed dont thik ill come over to urs coz im shattered from getting up at 5am all this week to muck out and get to wrk.
That obviosly was the wrong thing to say because that started a [glow=red,2,300]HUGE[/glow] argument.
He doesnt seem to understand that my first priority is lexi and loui. i have told him that and if he doesnt like it f*** off. [glow=GREEN,2,300]ARRRRRGGGGGGHHHHHHHH MEN[/glow]
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Post by racaille on May 2, 2008 8:14:00 GMT
Mmmm, they can be like spoilt little children.... (er, can't we all? lol)
He's feeling neglected. Get some sleep then put on the slap and a short skirt and go out on the toot together. He'll be fine. And next time, don't promise the impossible ie that you'll be 'quick' at the yard!
But it's good that he learns you have a life and are not available all the time. If he can't handle that, get rid!
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saza60
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Post by saza60 on May 2, 2008 8:38:17 GMT
thanx racaille great advice x x x
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Post by saza60 on May 2, 2008 9:10:19 GMT
exactly!! what a n*b he can be i hate him when he makes me choose between him and them. i just tell him them no matter what they'll always come 1st
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Post by otto on May 2, 2008 9:17:05 GMT
Ah but it works the other way round as well. I informed OH last night that I would be at keysoe BE on staurday, Moulton SJ on sunday and MKEC ODE practice on monday. She was fine with that as it was horse stuff. However, when I was gliding, if I dared suggest i spent an entire BH weekend flying it would have been a disaster.  Get rid and find a horsey bloke ;D |
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saza60
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Post by saza60 on May 2, 2008 9:22:50 GMT
i cant find any horsey blokes! i live in a sh*t whole where all the guys are wearing gold chains and soverians! not sure how to spell that!! i have to appoligise about firstly my swearing and also my spelling !
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Post by ceej on May 2, 2008 9:53:12 GMT
A man with a passion - thats whats best - my OH is obsessed with downhill moutain biking - we both compromise for each others hobby and both understand it...(unforunately horses will always take more time than any other hobby because they are animals) but if you can find a man who understands - great. Although the result is that we hardly see each other but it works!!
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midori
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Post by midori on May 2, 2008 13:27:36 GMT
Oh Saza,
He's jealous of the horses!
If he won't compromise, then give him a hoofprint in the pants! Do you really need the Aggro?
Cheers, midori
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Post by brigadier on May 2, 2008 13:43:44 GMT
Poor Saza, I know pontefract and you are right- its a strange town!!!!!!!!!!
But if youre wanting to find the right guy then is the one youre with currently worth the aggro. Because if he is like this now then he always will be so it may be worth cooling things and concentrating on the horses for a bit- then just when you least expect it the right person for you will come along. Ceej is right- you need someone- not necessarily a horsey person, that has their own interests so you can both continue to enjoy what you love doing best. there are guys out there, who despite their backgrounds have the self worth to not dictate to their girlfriends and to bully them into their will- because make no bones about it- his behaviour is bullying.
My OH comes from a mining village in Barnsley and from his background you would think he'd be like the typical pontefract guy- he's not!
Your perfect guy is out there and he could be from anywhere and anybody- it doesnt sound as if the current one is that guy.
regards
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Post by zara on May 2, 2008 14:53:12 GMT
I've been single for 7 years this year after a life time of non-horsey + selfish blokes. The only men in my life now have 4 legs! I would love to meet a chap who would be happy to share my life but I just can't see it happening so it's just me, AJ, Tom and Molly! Good luck Saza Zx
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Post by martine on May 2, 2008 16:44:57 GMT
Doesn't he have somethg that eats up HIS time? My OH is obsessed with tennis, and I am used to lonely sundays when he is away on a tournament. BUT as a consequence he doesn't mind it when I come home late and smelly from the yard!
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