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Post by perfectpony on Oct 5, 2009 12:08:48 GMT
does anyone ever get the feeling that your not liked? i hate it, i get dead paranoid!  |
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Post by florence on Oct 5, 2009 18:48:56 GMT
Yes. Sometimes people can be very hurtful. A group of "friends" all went out on a celebration a few weeks ago. I'm still upset that I wasn't invited.
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Post by haffyfan on Oct 5, 2009 19:12:22 GMT
Yep i get it a lot but I say sod the lot of them...true friends stick around even if you rarely see them...if you need them they are there!
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Post by fimacg on Oct 6, 2009 13:13:04 GMT
yep, I think we all get those paranoid feelings, whats up?
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Post by racaille on Oct 7, 2009 5:43:58 GMT
Is someone jealous that you've been given a lovely lorry, perchance? Seriously, yes, I used to waste a lot of my life trying to make people like me. It made them like me even less! Now I'm ancient I have finally learn to say f*** em. Wish I'd learned that years ago .................  |
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Post by perfectpony on Oct 7, 2009 18:27:06 GMT
yes very jealous of the lorry ha ha!!!!!!
just life in general, i always try and be nice to a certain someone and they always pick pick pick! even if there is nothing to pick at, they will find something it really bloody gets you sometimes!!!!!!! grr x
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Post by maximum on Oct 12, 2009 17:05:23 GMT
like rac I no longer care!! life is too short to worry about people who dont like you - better spending the time with those who love you!
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Post by perfectpony on Oct 15, 2009 16:37:24 GMT
what if you have no choice in the matter!!!! proves to be a bit difficult at times x
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Post by racaille on Oct 15, 2009 18:23:40 GMT
Well, there may not be much choice at work, but you can stop worrying about whether they all like you and just do your job well and spend your free time with those that love you.
I had a horrendous problem with a complete cow at work once and spent far too much time trying to win her over. The more I tried, the more she thought I was weak. Best to be polite, be brilliant at your job and save your 'caring' for those people who care about you! ;D
Life really IS too short to worry. There will always be people who don't like you - it's just the nature of being human. Accept it and move on ;D
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Post by Pony on Oct 24, 2009 10:47:51 GMT
I don't much care what people think of me anymore, though, still get that feeling..... As alway's. Not like very many people in this tiny town like me as it is, but... haha... I get, it, but nowI just don't care what anyone thinks. Pony  |
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Post by Blonde Donkey on Oct 24, 2009 13:30:35 GMT
yea but i usually bring them round with the powers of my dancing  generally though if people don't like me that's their look out I have enough people who do like me and my personality to worry about |
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Post by jane on Oct 24, 2009 16:01:24 GMT
I am the same, I don't care what people think, I do think it is quite amusing to be extra pleasant to someone who blatantly doesn't like you. Not going out of your way just at those times when you can't avoid them.
Life is too short to worry, as Rac said, save your caring for those who care about you!
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Post by maximum on Oct 24, 2009 16:53:59 GMT
i agree Jane - I love to blow kisses and wave to people who are honking their horn and giving the finger at an imagined ( never real!) slight on the road!!
Lets face it I have enough to worry about without giving a toss about what others think- its not my problem and if I had someone jealous of what I had ( unlikelylol) I would just be grateful I had what it was and not care about them I dont think for one second I am important enough to be disliked !!
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Post by brigadier on Oct 27, 2009 21:53:34 GMT
Only just seen this and it made me smile.
I must have spent all of my childhood, twenties and most of my thirties trying to make people like me. But the biggest lesson I learned was that I cannot dictate what people should think and feel or how they should act, because I suspect that by me thinking they should like me, that is what they are trying to do to me. If someone cannot accept me for what I am then so be it. And funnily enough its so much easier to like yourself once you stop caring about what others want or expect.
And I have better friendships now than I ever had!
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Post by FirenLady on Oct 27, 2009 22:06:47 GMT
I agree with Brig. I wish when I was at high school I spent less time worrying/caring what everyone else thought and more actually trying with my school work! Don't really care anymore though, Now I'm no longer in education, I see people through choice now and not cos were all chucked in a class room together! |
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Post by solomon on Oct 27, 2009 22:08:11 GMT
Our YO says what other people think of us is their business not ours, takes the pressure off. I try not to worry what people think. It is easier as you get old!
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Post by maximum on Nov 1, 2009 19:07:58 GMT
do you mean 'older' solomon as opposed to old which none of us are!!
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