ceej
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Post by ceej on Jul 30, 2009 21:43:59 GMT
Parents. I work my a4se off, always make the effort - I do the visiting, the ringing, the running around, the smoothing over when things go wrong - I get used as a solicitor when it suits and get accused of being a smart a4se when it doesnt. Im always fricking dependable, thats me. Yet I STILL seem to get it in the neck (probably because Mum is a drinker so all is morbid then 'woe is me and all that foul smelling poopy). Then I for some reason I end up feeling guilty.  IT SUCKS and Im grown up enough for it not to anymore. |
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Post by racaille on Jul 31, 2009 5:40:18 GMT
I have mine staying with me this weekend. I could strangle her already.  Poor you, Ceej. Try not to feel guilty, you're being manipulated and it's not fair. I know it's easier said than done though.  |
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Post by spotti on Jul 31, 2009 9:46:53 GMT
I think its in a parents job description to be annoying (sorry to any parents). Try to cheer up sweetie, we all love you   |
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Post by solomon on Jul 31, 2009 11:01:29 GMT
Oh ceej i so feel for you my mum has mental health problems, so has an excuse doesn't help when she is driving me insane. It is crap being the child of a needy parent i am a mum too and have to deal with a 22 year old baby as well!!
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baymare
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Post by baymare on Jul 31, 2009 11:17:41 GMT
i wish i had a mum to moan about and a dad.you are lucky even if they drive you mad.bay.xx.
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Post by solomon on Jul 31, 2009 11:20:16 GMT
Sorry bay that is very good point didn't mean to offend.
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Post by florence on Jul 31, 2009 17:04:01 GMT
You're having a bit of a rough time at the moment, aren't you? Try not to feel guilty and come on here and let off steam. The world would be a sorry place without dependable people like you. Huge hug ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) and a mountain of chocolate.
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Post by brigadier on Jul 31, 2009 17:18:07 GMT
I dont have parents too but my sister............... Grrrrrr! she can make me feel guilty all right but as soon as I realised it was her way of making herself feel better (twisted but true) it ceased to wind me up so much, and now she cant get a rise out of me she isnt as bothered anymore! We choose our friends not our family.
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Post by duckles on Jul 31, 2009 19:57:07 GMT
Ceej- I am sorry you are having a tough time at moment (well probably for years if your mum is alcoholic) but its the people we love (even we don't feel it !) who get to us the most. The 'dependable' thing struck a cord with me - I am that as well and my family (and friends sometimes) do use me a bit and it can get to me but at the end of the day, I wouldn't want to be unreliable. Just let your phone run out of battery. Pack a nice lunch and spend all of tomorrow riding and pottering around the yard and I hope you don't meet any emmets. Let Harry and Willow do the destressing
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