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Post by jack on Jun 24, 2008 17:31:00 GMT
of where i live all the neibour are the same all cause trouble and im alone here today is the first day that i nearly hit someone i had to walk away and now im realy holding back the tears dont want to cry in front of my kids
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Post by flash7 on Jun 24, 2008 17:39:55 GMT
Oh hunny it's ok to have a cry if it lets it all out but hide in the bathroom for a while if you don't want your children to see. Have some *HUGS* I'm sorry to hear that you are having a hard time with your neighbours. Do you not have a community liason officer that you can talk to to get some help and support? I rang environmental health to complain about my noisy neighbours and I felt much better just talking about it.
We are all here for you xx
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Post by rebanna on Jun 24, 2008 17:49:56 GMT
jack (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) i always go see my horse and have a good gallop make's me feel better
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Post by jack on Jun 24, 2008 17:51:28 GMT
i could cope if it was just noise it is realy rough down here ive tryed to move but no one wants to exchange with me and they wont move me the program neibours from hell dont come close to here my houseing dont want to know ive put up with down here for 8 years the only way they will move me is under medical reasons and im useless with forms we have riot vans down here and police seems like every 5 mins and it all seems to be rubing of on my kids i tryed locking myself in the bathroom but they keep following me if i didnt have to cook them there tea i would have gone to the field by now i dont know how much more i can take before i snap
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Post by rebanna on Jun 24, 2008 18:01:10 GMT
thought u lived in banbary? is it realy that bad i use to live in witney on burwell drive so i know what it's like but i was only the a year if u speak to ur GP could he write to the housing ppl and say about the stress and u need to move?
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Post by flash7 on Jun 24, 2008 18:01:11 GMT
See your GP and say that your housing situation is making you ill as it obviously is. Then you are certified as having a medical reason. As for form filling do have a local welfare rights group or go to citizens advice bureau they can help you fill in the forms. Failing that I'll help you fill them in!!
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Post by jack on Jun 24, 2008 18:16:16 GMT
yes i live in banbury yes its that bad thort i might do medical reasons for my back ive got the forms had them for a while now i keep looking at them but know im not good with words and im worried that if i get it wrong that i will lose my chance of them moveing and they will put me at the bottom of the list ive now got my curtains closed to shut them all out
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Post by Blonde Donkey on Jun 24, 2008 18:46:57 GMT
jack have a hug. these people sound like just like the people just down the road. if the police aren't down there everything kicks off all sorts going off. nobody walks down there on a night cos it just ain't safe
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Post by flash7 on Jun 24, 2008 22:23:00 GMT
Karma for Jack x
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Post by popsicle on Jun 24, 2008 22:39:37 GMT
Thats awful jack. No one should have to live like that. So sorry that you are worried for your children too. I agree about getting the doctor involved. Keep logging your anxieties with him. came across this site, don't know if it will help you. www.nfh.org.ukGood luck, |
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Post by florence on Jun 24, 2008 23:31:55 GMT
awww jack  It must be so awful to have to live like that. Go to the doctor and keep going until you get what you need. Do you have a bad back? Could you be classed as coming under the disability discrimination act? That might help. See if there's someone at the council, citizens advice or any such organisation near you that can help you with the forms. I know they can be a bit of a minefield but there are some places that will help with forms such as disbility living allowance etc. Do anything you can to get out and leave the b*@t!*'ds to it. If you're feeling too low to do anything, just think about your kids and that will spur you on. Hugs & karma coming  |
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Post by babymare on Jun 25, 2008 6:21:07 GMT
Ohhhhhhh Jack please please I beg you to see your doctor. They can help and point you in direction of others who can elp. In the case of filling the forms in go to Citerzn Advice bEAUREA and ask them to help. PLease there are lots of people who can help you but the first step is see your doctor. Oh a big big big )))))))hug(((((( remember even when it feels like it you are not alone honest xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Post by jack on Jun 25, 2008 9:42:29 GMT
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH i hate them all why wont they just leave me alone (jack leaves for 5 mins to swear alot)
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Post by popsicle on Jul 2, 2008 22:22:19 GMT
Just wondered how things were going Jack?
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Post by jack on Jul 2, 2008 23:03:23 GMT
still swearing
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Post by rebanna on Jul 2, 2008 23:04:56 GMT
awww jack sorry to hear that ((hugs))
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Post by slinky on Jul 3, 2008 7:19:18 GMT
Jack I have the best therapy for you. ;D
You absolutely must come to visit my tranquil oasis in Wychwood forest.
In order for the treatment to be successful, you will need to take all your children, pack them in the car, go via Tesco's pick up 1 dose of burgers.
On arrival at Slinkys place, remove children from car, allow to play with trampoline and slinky's scary kids.
Continue with BBQ lighting, set up tent, camp on Slinkys garden, and take a dose of rescue remedy aka mahooosive glass of wine.
Follow on with relaxation and bird listening.
See you soon! ;D ;D ;D
When you begin to recover you may even find it amusing to see slinky levelling her manege with her nose. (details to follow
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Post by popsicle on Jul 3, 2008 19:15:56 GMT
sorry to hear that Jack, think you need to take up slinky's offer. The ads are at it at the top of the page again, with soundproofing and noisy neighbour problems LOL
If it helps to talk about it, please feel free to PM me x
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Post by slinky on Jul 4, 2008 6:02:17 GMT
sorry to hear that Jack, think you need to take up slinky's offer. The ads are at it at the top of the page again, with soundproofing and noisy neighbour problems LOL If it helps to talk about it, please feel free to PM me x The noisiest thing here, is the bl**dy woodpecker, it bangs away outside my window every stinking morning. Grrrrrrr  |
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Post by flash7 on Jul 4, 2008 19:04:03 GMT
Sounds a great idea slinky. Jack I think you should go for it.
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Post by chellebean on Jul 4, 2008 19:11:52 GMT
Jack I have the best therapy for you. ;D You absolutely must come to visit my tranquil oasis in Wychwood forest. In order for the treatment to be successful, you will need to take all your children, pack them in the car, go via Tesco's pick up 1 dose of burgers. On arrival at Slinkys place, remove children from car, allow to play with trampoline and slinky's scary kids. Continue with BBQ lighting, set up tent, camp on Slinkys garden, and take a dose of rescue remedy aka mahooosive glass of wine. Follow on with relaxation and bird listening. See you soon! ;D ;D ;D When you begin to recover you may even find it amusing to see slinky levelling her manege with her nose. (details to follow and i missed it!! Damn lol |
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Post by florence on Jul 4, 2008 21:10:25 GMT
When you begin to recover you may even find it amusing to see slinky levelling her manege with her nose. (details to follow I really want to see that! ;D ;D ;D |
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Post by slinky on Jul 8, 2008 8:34:54 GMT
When you begin to recover you may even find it amusing to see slinky levelling her manege with her nose. (details to follow I really want to see that! ;D ;D ;D It begins with a gentle lungeing session, bringing my gelding back into work. Silly me decided not to use the pessoa, side reins or anything else.  I thought I could see a little more of his movement with just the lunge line. Next follows the head dropping, rearing and explosion of Sparks trying to leave the arena. Followed by me ski-ing accross the school, determined not to let go. The ultimate result is my face buried in the woodchip school, being dragged all over the place. ;D But, I never let go ;D ;D ;D, and I think by the end we had some decent work. ;D ;D I also learned, never give Spark an inch as he'll take a mile of the school surface and make sure it's splattered over every inch of me |
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Post by kitcat on Jul 8, 2008 9:06:32 GMT
Ouch!!!
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Post by florence on Jul 8, 2008 22:03:41 GMT
Oooh! Slinky! I shouldn't laugh, but I nearly couldn't stop. ;D ;D ;D Did you manage to get up, or did you have to finish the session face down eating dirt?  ? ;D ;D ;D |
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It must be so awful to have to live like that. Go to the doctor and keep going until you get what you need. Do you have a bad back? Could you be classed as coming under the disability discrimination act? That might help. See if there's someone at the council, citizens advice or any such organisation near you that can help you with the forms. I know they can be a bit of a minefield but there are some places that will help with forms such as disbility living allowance etc. Do anything you can to get out and leave the b*@t!*'ds to it. If you're feeling too low to do anything, just think about your kids and that will spur you on. Hugs & karma coming 
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